Can t Meet Women? Here Are 5 Mistakes You re Probably Making!

Are you a single guy struggling in the dating world? Do women ignore you while they turn their attention to a chosen few? Do you often feel tongue-tied and clumsy around women? Does the idea of putting yourself out there in an effort to meet someone scare the daylights out of you? Have a few bad experiences made you feel hesitant and unsure of yourself?

If you answered yes to any one of these questions, take heart; the majority of guys feel exactly the same way because they're going through the same problems. In the worst case, this means that you're simply average, and there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, there is probably nothing inherently wrong with you personally - it's much more likely that you're making a few simple mistakes that 90% of men are guilty of.

Fortunately, most of these are easily preventable. Here are the five mistakes most guys make in the dating world:

They choose the wrong venue. If you have very little experience talking to women, you might want to think twice about trying to meet someone in a noisy club or bar. Although it might seem like a logical place to start (like the old saying, "Fish where the fish are"), there are so many things going against a guy in a place like this. Two things come to mind: First of all, the music is usually so loud that it's impossible to talk to anyone unless you're screaming in their ear. Secondly, the competition is so fierce that an average guy has virtually no chance.

They neglect their appearance. Make sure you're looking your best. If you have no idea what looks good and what doesn't, get someone to lend a hand - preferably a woman.

They come on too strong. Although some guys can pull this off, most men can't use cheesy pickup lines effectively. This is an immediate turnoff unless the guy is exceptionally good-looking or personable. Even then, most women don't respond favorably.

They forget to smile and make eye contact. This can be a tough one, especially if the guy is already a little self-conscious and nervous. Your facial expression speaks volumes, and sometimes it seals your fate before you have a chance to say a single word.

They are too nice. Guys like this will always take the submissive role when talking to a potential date. They will try to gain approval by agreeing with everything she says, buying her drinks, and letting her lead the evening. This is a huge mistake. When you act in this manner, you are giving her the impression that you are clingy, desperate, and you lack self-esteem and confidence. These are not desirable traits, and many guys shoot themselves in the foot without even realizing it.

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