How to Attract Women - Using Your Smile

A lot of the information that you read about picking up women can be a little overwhelming when you are starting out - information about things you should and shouldn't do in every stage of the game from the approach to the close. But I think one simple (yet important) thing that is sometimes overlooked is just having fun and SMILING!

A man who smiles and has a good sense of humor can be very attractive to women ... and you will do this naturally if you are out to have a good time. When you are out to have a good time, your whole state of being is affected. Your positive energy comes across in every interaction, every conversation, every encounter. Your enthusiasm is so contagious it makes all the people around you feel good. Women see you and your friends having a good time and they are drawn towards your circle of friends. They want to see what all the fuss is about.

Now contrast this to a man who doesn't smile and doesn't look happy. If you were a woman, would you want to talk to this guy? Of course not, you'd be afraid that he would suck all the happiness and life out of you too! No matter how good your game is, if you aren't in a positive state of mind, women won't want to talk to you. Have you ever started a night off with a few unsuccessful attempts at opening sets? It's very hard to bounce back from these knockbacks because your positive state of mind is slowly being eaten away by frustration and self doubt. Women will sense this within a millisecond when you start talking to them and it is likely that you will come across as being needy.

This is why you need to relax. make yourself comfortable and enjoy the company of whoever you're with. Don't take yourself so seriously. Smiling is the most basic way of communicating with someone without talking and is great for when you make eye contact with a girl and only have a split second to react.

And it is excellent for approaching women. If you approach a woman with a smile on your face before she even sees you, she will naturally return the smile out of reflex. She will be predisposed to give you a good response because she will connect all the good feelings that are associated with smiling with you. It will almost be as if she has invited you to come chat!

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