How to Pick Up Women Like a PUA
Most men will never really know how to successful attract and pick up women. The process is simply not widely taught, and so many people still assume that attraction and attractiveness is something people are born with. Any successful pickup artist, or PUA will know that this isn't true.
I personally went from considering myself unattractive, and having no success with women, to being a confident outgoing person who was able to attract and seduce desirable women.
To pick up women successfully, you will need to have three aspects to your character, Mr Sociable, Mr Comfort, and Mr Seducer.
Firstly you need to be Mr Sociable which means be socially outgoing enough to initiate a conversation in the first place. Your energy level will need to be slightly higher than the set that you're targeting, and you should aim to be playful, spontaneous and fun. A PUA won't be afraid to challenge the girl, and remember to throw in a few negs and DHV.
Once you've started a conversation, aim to transition into becoming Mr Comfort. Ask questions that will evoke deep feelings that she won't usually share with people she's just met. Ask her about her childhood, the last time she was in love. A good PUA will talk to a girl about things that will evoke deep emotions and get her to talk about things that she feels passionate about. Don't just sit there nodding and agreeing with everything she says. Make an effort to listen to what she's saying, then feed it back to her, which will help make a connection.
When you feel you've created a good level of comfort switch to Mr Seduction and start sexually escalating. Slow your speech down, make eye contact and kino. Perhaps throw in a SOI (statement of intent) and don't be afraid to let her know that you want her, which is something that a lot of men feel reluctant to do when trying to pick up women. If you have built up enough comfort this will come across as seductive, not sleazy. However don't try to do this too early, as you will then you will come across as a sleazy pickup artist, so make sure you don't skip stage two of the process!
The key to being a successful pickup artist is to transition from one character to another smoothly, and at the right time. If you spend too much time being Mr Sociable, then you'll come across as a fun guy which is good, but you won't be able to build up enough of a connection to have made the girl really interested. Spend too much time as Mr Comfort, then you risk being trapped in the friend zone, a common problem with students who are too timid to let a girl know that they want them.
Without social calibration you're probably not going to be able to judge how to transition between these characters especially well, and may not initially have dramatic success when you try to pick up women, but this judgment will come with time and practice. When I began in the game I would often make the mistake of sexually escalating too quickly, and essentially not build comfort, which would result in getting blown out of the set. Over time I learned that in order to build a solid interaction I needed to spend more time in the comfort zone. Being a successful PUA doesn't happen lightening quickly, and it also doesn't happen without its share of failure. Don't see getting blown out of a set as a failure, just think about what you did, and how analyze how much time you spent in each character and what you could have done better and keep going.