Living in Singlehood - How to Become Single and Satisfied and Find the Love You Deserve
What does being single mean to you? What is the first thought that pops up? Does being single evoke thoughts of possibilities and future endeavors? When you think of being without a partner does it conjure up feelings of despair and loneliness? Are you feeling hopeless or have you just given up? Your perspective on being single is a key factor in creating the life you want, your future choices of partners and whether your next relationship will be the one you've dreamed of.
Many will face singlehood, either by choice or circumstance. The number of single households is growing significantly. What does it mean to be single today? Being single doesn't have to mean you are destined to a life of loneliness and despair. Today, you can be single and live a fulfilling and satisfying life. More importantly, being single means you have an opportunity to live the life you dream of and find the ideal partner for you! What you do in the state of singlehood determines your destiny!Here, I will share with you the 5 stages of singlehoood and what you can do to get closer to creating the life you desire and finding the love you deserve!
Single and Stuck
- In a relationship that is not in alignment with who you truly are; feeling unfulfilled
- Unable to let go of current or past relationship; still holding on to the possibility of it "working out"
- Unable to see the future outside of the current situation
Area of focus for positive change
- Awareness~becoming aware of where you are and where you want to be; identify what fears are keeping you stuck where you are; realizing that you have options and choices
Single and Healing
- Emotionally fragile; some good days and some bad days
- Grieving and experiencing feelings of loss
- Just trying to get to a place of feeling ok
Area of focus for positive change
- Forgiveness~begin the process of forgiving yourself and others; identify what lessons can be learned and what new choices you can make. Forgiveness is a choice that will speed the healing process
Single and Comfortable
- Emotionally safe; now ready to take control
- Living on autopilot; not willing to do anything outside of comfort zone
- Thoughts of change or dating causes fear or anxiety
Area of focus for positive change
- Vision~start envisioning how you want your life to be and the kind of relationship you want; be clear on what you want and choose not to settle for less
Single and Ready
- Open to new possibilities
- Ready to take action
- Clear vision of who and what you want in your life with boundaries set
Area of focus for positive change
- Action~what steps will you take; what are you willing to sacrifice to have what you want; be willing to step out of your comfort zone
Single and Satisfied
- Living a satisfying and balanced life (in all areas... financial, health, family, friends, career, social); living in alignment with who you truly are
- Open to new experiences
- Living in a world of gratitude
Area of focus for positive change
- Contentment~enjoy being satisfied with your life and you will continue to emanate an energy that attracts everything you desire
Being single is a part of life and nothing is guaranteed. How you approach being single is up to you. Take the time alone to heal your heart, forgive and identify lessons learned. Don't allow fear to keep you one place. Being single is an opportunity of a lifetime and puts you one step closer to living your dreams! Once you are able to identify what stage of singlehood you are in, you can begin to take the steps to move beyond and begin creating the life you want. Get support, join a group, hire a coach!
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