Guide to Prostate Massage - Part 1
This guide to prostate massage will show you exactly how to give your partner a pleasurable but safe massage in 3 easy to do steps. It is very important that you explain to your partner what you are about to do, so that he can relax and be comfortable with the situation.
Step1 - Urinate or Bowel Movement
It is very important that your partner urinate or do a bowel movement before the massage. Both of you will be red in the face when this happens during the massage and it will probably be the last time you do it. Save yourself the embarrassment and ask your partner to do this before you start.
Step2 - Relaxing
It is very important to get your partner to relax because it will be very uncomfortable for him when you put your fingers in his anus. Men are not used to this and the body will automatically stiffen up. You should do some relaxing foreplay to get your partner in the mood for this.
Step3 - Giving The Massage
Make sure your hands are sterile and use some latex gloves. Put some water-based lubricant on your fingers and gently insert two fingers into the anus. You don't have to drill down the whole length of the fingers. The prostate gland is situated about 3 cm in the front wall of the anus. This means you just gently insert your fingers into the anus towards the navel of your partner until you feel a round piece of tissue.
Don't rub hard on it because there are sensitive nerves in the middle. Just gently massage the prostate gland until your partner ejaculate. This doesn't always happen but it still is a very pleasurable experience for your partner if you do it right.
This guide to prostate massage will teach you how to become very good at giving your partner this type of massage.