Five Great Foreplay Ideas For Men and Women For Hot Sex
Most women really love a lot of sensual foreplay and they often complain about men that are not skilled in this area. So I have put some of my best tips together so that you can use to get your lover very turned on and hot.
How about starting love making with a sensual massage? Just about all women really love to be massaged. One can start a sensual massage with silk or fur touching all over her body. I usually follow this with some very light, slow and sensual touching with long strokes from the head to the feet. One very sexy part to massage is the toes. Many men have never played with the toes. Other sensitive areas are the back and the legs, especially the inner thighs. I like a light taping on the sacrum area to stimulate this area.
Make sure you use a nice oil to allow your fingers to glide over her skin. Most men tend to rush the strokes. Try to slow down the touch and vary the pressure and then see how she reacts. Really feel her skin under your hands and be very present in the sensations in your hands.
Kissing is one of the best foreplay technique and most women find kissing very sensual. Try kissing other areas of the body apart from the lips, like the neck, inner thigh's and the toes. I have actually had a woman orgasm from toe kissing and sucking. Some women love their fingers kissed and sucked too.
Nibbling that is gentle can be a real turn on. One can combine this with kissing and sucking many areas of the body. The ears is a easy way to see how effective this is. Try do do some teasing as this is a simple way to ramp up the erotic energy. Try going to a more erotic area for a little time and then to a less erotic area to really tease.
Many women don't have orgasms from intercourse. Oral sex is one method to make sure she does. It also allows you to show her how much you enjoy doing it for her. If done properly, this will be the quickest way for her to reach orgasm in all it's glory.
Communication is a challenge for some during sex. I find it is best to follow this formula.
"I really like what you are doing, honey. Can you try .... . Gee, that feels great."
So offer a compliment first instead of being critical. Then offer a suggestion for change and then some feedback about the results.
Dirty talking is a real art form and it allows you to take your lover into her more lusty side. Most women don't want to be called slutty but they love a man that can take them into this sort of energy. For more information on this see dirty talking examples.
Boring sex results when the same old routine is used over and over again. Experiment with something new every-time you make love and you will never have boring sex again.