The Cons of Sex Everyday!
There has been a mini flurry of recent news regarding couples who have been having sex everyday for 100 days straight, or even every day for an entire year. A few of the couples have written books and are appearing on talk shows expressing what a great way sex everyday can improve your relationship.
Naturally, the very serious negative effects, or cons of everyday sex are left out. Here are a few of those important negatives to consider before engaging in everyday intimate escapades:
1. Burn out!
There is a more than excellent chance for burning out with the everyday sex routine. Even some of the couples interviewed expressed times where they had to "just go through the motions" in order to fulfill their promise of everyday intimacy.
When you reach that point then you no longer are having relationship building sex, you are engaging in intimacy which has become dull, robotic, and strictly for the purpose of just being consistent with numbers. That's a horrible place to force your intimacy into.
2. Increase for Cheating thoughts and/or behavior!
Burn out not only leads to dullness in a relationship, it also forces the mind to look elsewhere to be satisfied. Think about it, when you force something which is usually enjoyable into an everyday task, it becomes dull and you automatically desire a change. The change that the mind seeks can easily take the form of thoughts regarding other sexual partners.
Ultimately sex should be special and only practiced with your monogamous partner. By practicing it everyday you lose that "specialness" and naturally get bored, seeking some form of change.
3. You Kill Variety!
Think about this, there are so many different tips, techniques and tricks out there to greatly improve intimacy. They are exciting, erotic, sensual and incredibly enjoyable. And they will last a life time.
Or will they? Practicing the sex everyday routine can totally deplete sexual variety. Variety which would normally last a lifetime, can easily be depleted within a year by forcing something different everyday. The only other variety left, is, once again, a different partner.
Conclusion: The Better Way:
A much, much better way to increase your intimacy and sexuality, is by practicing variety, but not depleting it. Reserving sex for the times which you both desire it, instead of just going through it robotic like. This will greatly improve your relationship and vastly improve the variety and intensity of your sex life.
Here is an excellent Sex Variety Book which includes hundreds and hundreds of incredible and erotic tips and techniques - http://sex-skills.blogspot.com
The author is a sex expert and former Oprah guest who has incredible insight on the real way to increase excitement and eroticism in your relationship. Check out - http://sex-skills.blogspot.com
Source: http://ezinearticles.com/
Added: July 2, 2008
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