Why Porn Sex is Bad Sex
For many years I had a sexual style love similar to what I had seen in porn. In fact, this type of sex was like how I learned to masturbate as a teen. I practiced a sexual style of fast and vigorous and thought that this was the real key to great sex.
However, all this changed when I attended a sexuality workshop. At this workshop, 30 women described how they really liked sex.
Now, just about all the men had a big shock as they found what they generally liked was considered bad sex
Gee, over 90% of the women said they liked sex to be slow and connected, or used similar expressions. And only a few described porn style sex as their favorite style of sexuality. So it seemed that porn style is is bad sex.
Now as a qualified sexologist, I get to talk to a lot of ladies about sex. I really have looked into what women really want in sex. Most women still liked a high intensity sexual experience now and then.
But what they really wanted was most times an emotional connection with their lover they made love.
So from my research and the nice homework I have done over the years, what are some tips for guys to make love in this connected way.
- Open your eyes and feel into your lover when making love. See if you can become more sensitive and feel her orgasmic energy in your body. Eyes open sex can be challenging for some, but the rewards are feeling more in tune with your lover and more love flowing.
- Slow down how you make love. Take more time in foreplay and intercourse. Really get into your sensual touch on your lovers body. Try making love for 30 minutes or longer. Enjoy every second.
- Breath more. Try breathing into your belly. This helps you not to get too excited and as a result, to make sex last a lot longer. It also can you help build the energy to higher states of pleasure.
- Try making more sounds of pleasure so your lover can feel your energy more. This also helps men move the energy from their genitals to a more full body experience. This allows them to avoid the coming too soon issue that a lot of men face.
- Relax during sex instead of having a goal of orgasm. Really enjoy every touch and sensation and feeling with no goal. Let go to really feel your love for your lover and her feminine sexual energy.
Next time you make lover, try some of the above tips and see how your lover responds.
Warning all guys, BAD SEX CAN LEAD TO SEPARATION!.
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