Is She Faking It?

Is she faking her orgasms? Of course not! Not with me! I'm the best she has ever had! Well you may just be right, and if you are, you are one of lucky 25% of men out there that is with a woman that does orgasm during intercourse.

75% of women do not orgasm during intercourse.

There are a variety of reasons for this ranging for stress, fatigue, anxiety, depression, drug use (recreational and prescription), or alcohol. It can be factors surrounding the act itself, worry, guilt, fear of pregnancy,or possibly the setting. Or it could be, she just has something else on her mind, work, the kids, her parents are coming for dinner on the weekend and the house is a disaster!

All of these things can result in a woman faking her orgasm mostly because,well, she has had enough, she is tired and wants to get it over with. Instead of just saying so, in fear of damaging your ego, she will act out an orgasm to make you feel good, and inevitably, so she can get some sleep.

A true orgasm is an involuntary reaction to sexual tension that has built up throughout the arousal period. There are tell tale signs to watch for to know if you are getting a performance, or if you are truly rocking her world.

If her world is being rocked, her eyes are closed, her face and her chest are flush, her vaginal muscles are getting tenser and tenser. She arches her back, forcibly thrusting her hips towards the source of her pleasure. Her rhythm is increasing, she is totally focused on the now, faster and harder, until the point of climax when her body involuntarily takes over.

As she orgasms her rhythm will change, and her vagina will contract 10-15 times within a 10-20 second period of time, (her anus will also contract 2-3 times)which is physically impossible to duplicate consciously.

There are many reasons why women may not be able achieve an orgasm,and every one of those reasons is just another excuse to find a way to change that.

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