Break Up Help - How to Get Back My Ex After a Bad Break Up

You said something really, really hurtful to your lover in a quarrel and you are eagerly looking for help after your bad break up. The specific circumstances are irrelevant now, maybe you did something wrong, or maybe she is the side that should be blamed.

The first step you should do is to analyze how bad the situation has become.

A fight - If your break up was due to a fight, this is a very very bad break up situation then if not the worst. You have scared her away by hitting her and she probably needs a lot of time to recover inside and outside her body. She did not expect that you would punch her or even slap her. Looking at her bruises now, she might feel very bad, angry, sad, or even afraid of seeing you again. She might not pick up the phone even if you make hundreds of calls a day. You feel very sorry and regretted for your silly mistakes now. You have sent plenty of messages to ask for her forgiveness but it doesn't help to improve your situation.

Break up help: Stop your phone calls and sms, you are simply haunting her. If you really care of her and want to help her, ask help from a friend who is close to both of you. Healing takes time especially after a fight, rushing for a meeting is definitely not helping and in fact will worsen the situation. If you do not have a common friend, try write the apologies in your blog and how bad your life has become after losing her. This might not be a good way but you can at least let her know your condition if it happens that she read your blog. Try call her after a few weeks and monitor the condition closely.

A betrayal - You betrayed her love and trust. Did you do that in purpose? Or just because of some accidents?

Break up help: Unfaithfulness is a very bad act which no one can endure. Even if you have betrayed your gf now, you would not wish that your gf does the same to you too. Ask yourself a question, if you have successfully got back your ex, will you be totally committed and loyal to her? It will be better to remain break up if you cannot even promise yourself that you will be loyalty to her. If she does not wish to see you, write to her. Writing a letter will help you to let her know you want her back desperately.

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