The Most Important Step Towards a Healthy Relationship
Everything around us is just a mirror of our inner world. Your partner, your lover is exactly the same. Why, you think, we often attract relationships with the same difficulties? They come to show us something. They come to reflect us what kind of believes we hold inside.
So if you want to build healthy relationship with someone, you have to build such with yourself first.
This is the most important step!
If you don't love yourself, don't receive yourself just as you are, judge and criticize yourself, two thins can happen:
1) You will attract the partner ,who will treat you the same way. (Although he is just a trigger, you will blame him for making you feeling like this)
2) You will meet someone, who treat you by the best way, but your fears will not allow you to experience and enjoy this love and freedom. You will always find the reason to become upset.
To build healthy relationship you have to release all believes you hold inside. They hide your beautiful real nature, which is love. When you clean dirt, beauty appears. You become so full of yourself, of happiness, of love. You don't depend of anyone anymore to feel good. Nobody can really make you suffering.
When you don't feel miserable, pity, unloved, you will be reflected in your life. You will not stay at the relationship, that you don't get appropriate attitude there. It will be changed by itself, naturally.
So this is what you can do:
Concentrate on giving yourself the qualities which you looking in your partner:
You want to be beloved?
You want someone consider you and your desires?
You want your partner to take care of you?
Or anything else....
Just start to give it to yourself:
Start to feel love-wake this feeling up inside you,
Start to consider yourself and to take care.
All that you look outside exist in you; you need just to strengthen the connection inside you with the qualities you are looking for.
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