Has Your Man Found The Real You?
Which part of you does your man know? Does he know the part that says, "Baby, that feels good, please don't stop!" or does he know your true essence.
If your man hasn't found you, he'll never commit to you and he'll just take what he can get until he meets a woman who can help him break through to find her and ultimately makes her his forever woman.
So you've got to think about what you're doing right in your relationship or whether you're getting to know a man that's causing him to attach himself to your " I look good in makeup self" or the real heart and soul of who you are.
Women need to show men the best parts of themselves, initially, and then ease them into the real part of who they really are.
You know the part of you that's the real you so if you're hiding, you'd better come out. Come out wherever you are and ease your man into knowing the real deal.
Just don't jump out like the scary wolf in the fairy tales and cook the man for dinner. He'll think you're more than crazy, and rightly so if you're going to show him teeth.
When you start dating a man, you've got to become an honesty mystery.
Give him little doses of your true self so that he can fall in love with that. Not a big dose of stranger sex or "This is me, this is me, this is me!"
You shouldn't make every man you date check your oil after 3 dates. "Hello down there!?
Get a man hooked on the truest part of your soul by being secure enough to not worry that having him know who you are and what you stand for will drive him away. If you're being a wicked step sister, then he should really dump you.
Save the part of you, the most treasured part of you and keep that a secret. Lock it away with a key and don't open it up unless it's true love and he's walked you down the aisle.