I m Not Attracted to My Husband Anymore - Help For Wives to Save Their Marriage
There was a time, in my marriage, when I was not attracted to my husband anymore. I soon realized, after searching the internet for information, that I wasn't alone. Many women suffer with this and it obviously takes its toll on the relationship. Losing attraction to your spouse can eventually lead to divorce but there are things women can do to rebuild the relationship.
When I felt not attracted to my husband anymore I knew that it ran deeper than his physical appearance. We both had changed since the marriage in many ways. He may have been a bit more rotund, but I was as well. I felt disconnected from him on an emotional level which I soon realized was at the root of the problem. I needed to feel emotionally connected to him in order to find him attractive.
I wanted to get back to a place where I felt he was desirable and I knew to do that I had to get over the resentment I was feeling for him. Also, there was so much stress in both our lives that it was creating a negative association within our relationship. I knew that the main reason I was not attracted to my husband anymore was because we just weren't communicating enough with each other. There were things I was holding in that created tension. That tension contributed to the feelings I was having that made him unappealing to me.
For us it was more about learning to effectively communicate with one another. I wanted him to understand what I was feeling and be more empathetic and compassionate. I also had enough insight to realize that he was likely feeling less attracted to me and for the very same reasons. Open communication really is key if you want to save your marriage and get back to feeling an attraction to the man you married.
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