With Jealousy Problems Marriage is a Challenge

With jealousy problems marriage can never be happy. One is miserable dreaming up all the terrible things the other is out doing with whoever they imagine it is being done with. The other is curtailing all activity trying to appease the other, only to get harassed when returning home from the grocery store.

With jealousy problems marriage cannot survive. Jealousy comes from within the jealous party, especially when the other person has given no logical reason for the jealousy. If your spouse is jealous, it is because they do not trust themselves to keep you happy. So they

They are not so worried about what you are doing as they are the obsession with losing you. They know if that happens they will be nobody without you. So the obvious action is to do exactly the opposite of what is healthy. They build you prison and hope you stay.

The jealous party MUST learn to trust the other, as well as themselves. If you are the jealous one, you must release the other. If you are the victim in jealousy prison, you must be released.

It comes down to the couple working together on the issue of trust, both of each other and of themselves. The only way to dispose of the jealousy problems marriage presents is to replace the jealousy with mutual trust.

That is easier said than done for most couples. Jealousy is such a deep rooted condition that once afflicted, a person can have great difficulty overcoming it. The victimized spouse will need to realize going in that it may never be cured. And even if it is, it will come at great sacrifice to both.

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