Save My Marriage - Lighten Up to Save Your Marriage

Often when couples have gone through or are going through some bumpy spots in their relationship, things tend to get serious. These are the moments that you should be treasuring. It is in our moments of challenge and conflict that we really grow.

For instance if you feel that your partner is too critical, that is a good chance to learn to poke fun at yourself.

Often is is that there is a large amount of tension or perhaps we are not sure what to say. Regardless of the reason, learn to lighten up. Do not take every comment, glance, or movement as a serious problem. If your mate makes a mistake, which you both will, let it go, of if appropriate, laugh about it. If you make a mistake, do not be afraid to poke fun at yourself.

This will automatically start the process of tension breaking. Next, let us look at the worst case scenario, what is the worst thing that could happen, getting out of a bad marriage, or staying in a bad marriage? It sounds over-simplified, but I think it makes a very important point. If you can answer that question then you have the answer that you need.

For some, leaving the bad marriage is not the worst thing. If that is the case then the fear of the marriage ending should no longer be an issue. You simply have to work to make it better. The fastest way to that point is to communicate you your partner that you have asked this question of yourself and arrived at an answer.

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