Get Your Husband Back - Part 2

In Part 1 of this article, I was telling you about the struggles with my marriage, and how we were able to work things out and I was able to get back together. Well, it did take time, and it was not a walk in the park, but it has definitely been worth it, and I wouldn't trade that time for anything. Our marriage is better now than I think it could have been had we not separated. The first week or so that we had split up, I was so angry and bitter. The second week, I was an emotional basket case, crying at the drop of a hat, not eating, I was a wreck, besides taking care of our boys, I could not force myself to do anything. The third week, after much soul searching, and a very big dose of humility I realized how much I missed him and I did not want to live without him for another day. So, what did I do after that to get my husband back? Below, I have outlined a few ways to get your husband back.

There are two important things that you need to remember, and you may have to remind yourself quite often of these-first, you will be crying and feeling lonely, and that is a normal part of the process, and there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Second, you must be fully committed to getting your husband back, and it may just happen. Now is not the time to sit around hoping and wishing your husband back, you have to take action. The time that you sit around thinking about it instead of actually taking action, you are wasting that precious time, and you do not have a ton of time!

Now, onto the steps of getting your husband back:

1. Give your ex some space. I know this is probably the least thing that you wanted to hear, and when I heard it when I was getting my husband back, I almost didn't believe, but it really worked. You do not want to be calling him non stop, writing him emails and sending him text messages. You and your husband both need time to sort things out for yourself, and if you keep trying to contact him, that is not giving him the space he needs. Trust me, it is definitely worth it to giving him space.

2. Arrange to meet at a casual, fun place. Because you and your ex know each others likes and dislikes, you can use this to your advantage. Now that you and your husband have been able to sort things out, now is the time to get together and talk, and have fun. If meeting is not an option, try phone calls. Make this be a fun meeting, not putting any pressure on either one of you, and it may be a total success!

3. Positive thinking. When you and your husband are able to talk about things, do not argue and mull over the break up over and over again. That tends to bring up the feelings you had when you broke up, and that will hurt your chances of getting back together. It is important that you have confidence in yourself, guys do not like women with no confidence in themselves. When you do talk with your husband, try to bring up good things instead of bad things, and be open and honest with what is going on in your life.

4. Retain your composure. This is a big step. You want your husband back, but the last thing you want to do is plead and beg for him to come back. Now is the time that you need to do some soul searching, and own up and take responsibility for the mistakes that you have made, and you need to know what you are doing and willing to do to correct those mistakes as necessary. This will clear the air between you two, and you will be able to discuss the problems in your relationship and go on from there.

5. Icing on the cake. You have made it a long way on getting your husband back. In order to prove your dedication and commitment, you need to do something-you have to be able to show you can, "talk the talk and walk the walk."

These are some the steps that I used in getting my husband back and it worked, and I know it can work for you too. Keep in mind, this takes time and is emotional, but it is well worth it.

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