Winning Her Love Back - 5 Tips
Sometimes, the love that two people share can stumble a bit on the road of life. After this happens, the love of some couples bounces right back up after engaging in some healthy communication (and some time has gone by). In some cases, it just limps along for a long while, never able to fully recover. And, in other cases, the love of some couples never seems to get back up after a hard fall. What causes the different fates that couples meet when their love fades?
Of course, all couples are bound to hit a rough patch now and then. Changing life circumstances, financial challenges, and even the mere desire of one of the lovers to shake things up a bit and try something new can all play a role in bringing about these situations. If you are a guy who has lost the love of that special girlfriend or wife, try these 5 tips for winning her love back:
Tip #1: Do something really nice for her: Yes, there is a part of all women that is attracted to the bad boy side of their man: the independent spirit, the lone wolf who doesn't take flack from anybody. At the same time, this does not change the fact that women at a very basic level like to be treated with kindness and loving attention. Women like to know that we find them special in some way. They want to know that they have certain special qualities that make set them apart from other women. So, in order to show your lady that you think she is special, do something nice for her. Not just a gift, but something beyond that. For example, go take a special photo of a place you used to visit together. Plan a special day for the two of you. Send her some flowers with a card that lets her know you were thinking of her.
Tip #2: Let her know that you are interested but not needy: What is it that women like about a man who has that independent, devil-may-care attitude? To put it bluntly: it turns a woman on to know that you could be with other women but that you choose to be with her instead. It is this careful line that all men must walk if we are to be successful in attracting our ladies: coming across as being interested in her but at the same time not seeming too needy. If your woman thinks that you cannot live without her, you have a problem on your hands because she will not respect you enough. However, if your women thinks that you could be happy without her, but not nearly as happy as when you are with her, you have struck the golden balance.
Tip #3: Focus on the natural attraction you once shared: Think back to the time when the two of you were at the height of your physical attraction for each other. What were you doing regularly? How did you dress? For example, did you find yourself dressing up often to please her? Or, maybe the two of you did physical activities like walking or cycling together. Whatever it was, think back to what you were doing, how you looked, how you dressed. Now, look at how the two of you have been spending time together more recently. Chances are that the two pictures are very different. Hint: try going back to that special time when you were crazy about each other and figure out what you were doing that was working so well. Then, find ways to relive some of that again.
Tip #4: Look directly into her eyes when you speak with her: The eyes are truly the windows to the soul. Whenever you come into contact with your lover, look her directly in the eyes. Give her a smile and let her know you are really seeing her, that you are really listening to her. The soul connection that you will establish in those moments will stimulate her mind and her heart, and any feelings of love that she still harbors for you will be stirred to the surface.
Tip #5: Share with her that your life is active and happy but that it is missing just one thing: When you are with your lady, tell her about the things you have been interested in lately. (But avoid talking about your work!) Discuss people whom you have met, books you have read, and hobbies you have been pursuing. Or, try talking about your plans, your dreams, and the places you want to visit. Let her know that she can be a part of this life you are living or want to live. Remember, being interested in the things around you makes you come across as interesting and attractive yourself. Let your passion for life come across to her and she will respond in kind.
To win back the love of that special lady, you need to start by showing her kindness and forming a direct connection with her whenever you are together. You need to let her know that you are living a happy, fulfilled life but that it could be even better if she were a bigger part of it. Stick to these basics and you will be well down the path toward a rekindled romance with your special lady.
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Added: June 23, 2008
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