Why Fear is Making Where to Take Her on a Date So Difficult
When men come to me looking for places to take a woman to on a date for the most part (really all the time) it has nothing to do with his lack of ideas when it comes to things to do on a date.
Many times what really is holding him back is fear and one of the ways that fear manifest itself is in what if. What if she has already been there and done that or what if she doesn't like it and decides that she doesn't want to go out with me. Basically the "what if" fear usually comes down to what if she rejects me based entirely on where I suggested we should go even though I'm rather indifferent to where we go.
The bad news is this fear is entirely valid especially on first dates as sometimes it doesn't take much to have a woman change her mind for reasons that may or may or may not make much sense. However, the good news is the only women who will change their mind based on where you suggest you should go are women who were rather neutral to you in regards to attraction or didn't like you at all but were willing to get a free meal/activity out of you.
In other words, women with whom you really didn't have a shot at attracting anyhow especially if you haven't moved past the fear of where to take her on a date. Of course, now that you have moved beyond this fear you can begin inviting women to the things that you are passionate about and that you aren't indifferent towards because you know that it doesn't matter where you take her when you know how to attract women; as the only thing that matters at that point is being with you.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.
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Added: September 28, 2008
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