How to Be Successful With Men
Men love to win.
They love a challenge.
But they do not love drama. Men would prefer to have stress in their jobs, than to have stress in their relationships. They are hard-wired to love freedom. When it comes to your relationship with men, it has to be full of laughter, wholesome fun, and freedom.
In order for you to be successful, you have to provide an air of mystery, dignity, honesty and freedom. Men love women who are emotionally independent.
They might want to come and rescue you if you are going through something stressful, but generally, they do not want to be your shrink.
It's a good idea to use your girlfriends for venting, not men. Unless a man is deeply emotionally attached to you, venting will cause him to think you're a negative person who cannot be happy.
In order to make a man feel like he's winning with you, become the sort of woman who appreciates his efforts while having good old fashioned respect.
Respect his need for space, privacy, his opinions, his decisions etc. The more freedom you give to a man, the more he will respect you and his attraction for you will increase.
Being a challenge has nothing to do with giving him a hard time. It is being responsive but elusive. Giving a little then holding back. It's creating romantic tension by not being available every time he wants to get a hold of you.
Success with men = being happy, responsive, having an opinion, easy going, and a whole lot of fun.