How to Move From Text Dating to Real Dating - 3 Laws to Text Dating Success
Text dating is quite a convenient dating system. It's very simple, stress free and easy to do. All you do is login to a text dating program like Match or Meetmoi and give them your information and the kind of mate you're looking for. After that, they'll start texting you people that you might match up with. Sounds simple? That's because it is. The hardest part is going from text dating to real dating.
Texting is kind of like a drinking addiction. At first you love it, it's fun, and then at some point you need it and you can't get away from it. Well, the same goes for text dating. You'll love it and then you can't get away from it. In other words, it can become your crux if you are not careful.
The goal is to meet someone you match up with in real life and not to actually date someone through texting. I'm going to give you the three crucial laws of text dating so you can smoothly move from text dating to real dating.
Law #1 - Text date someone for no more than two weeks - A rule of thumb: If you text date for more than two weeks, you can consider your relationship stuck on the phone. All relationships go through stages and texting is just a part of the stage that should only last two weeks or less. If you don't get off the phone within two weeks, you are most likely going to end up building a relationship over the phone and then you're stuck.
Law #2 - Build importance and value - If you are a guy remember to flirt, seem busy / important, and don't instantly respond when she texts you. If you are a woman, remember to flirt, put in lines that turn him on (example: "just looking cute (or sexy) for this party Im going to") and show signals when something he's doing is working, such as texting, "hahahaha, you're funny." Just remember, the person is going to want to meet you if you have created value and importance.
Law #3 - Make your first meeting casual - Meeting someone for the first time should never be a huge event, keep it casual. Why? Because you don't know the person and your main goal is not to impress them, but to see if they are worthy of pursuing. How could you do that if you have a whole night planned out and you're worried if the person will like you. Waste no money or time on the first date, and if it goes smooth and there's a real connection then spiff up the second date. When I say casual, I mean meeting up for some coffee, a bite to eat, a game in the park, movie, bar, BBQ with friends, etc.
Remember, use texting as a way to build a relationship not a place to have a relationship.