Dreaming Up Your Perfect Person

1. 6 Must Haves: These are the six things that are extremely important to you and you can't live without. This may include physical characteristics, the type of job they have, how much money they make, what city they live in, etc., etc. These are the absolute basics that you are not willing to compromise on. Everyone has those things that their potential partner must possess. They may be superficial or they may be more substantial such as the number of children that they want, their religion or temperament. Once you figure what yours are, write them down.

2. 10 Extremely Important Things: Now think of 10 things that are extremely important. These aren't your must haves but they still matter. This may include things like their weight, fitness, hair color or job industry. Write these 10 things down as well.

3. 6 Must Not's: These are, as Dr. Phil says, your deal breakers. These are the things that absolutely can not deal with in a partner. These might include things like verbal or physical abuse, past imprisonment or heavy debt.

4. Dreams List: Your dreams list is more about you then your partner. This list gives you an opportunity to write down all of the things that you want to do before you die. Sort of like your bucket list. Its' purpose is for you to figure out the things that you want for yourself, so that you will know what you want in someone else. Relationships work best when two whole persons get together, not two broken ones.

When you are dreaming up your ideal person, make sure that you take adequate time and give it a great deal of thought. You want a person that you have chemistry with and who will make a good partner. Therefore, be extremely honest with yourself concerning what you like and what you don't, what you can tolerate and what you can not. To help you sort this out be sure to write down the 6 six things that you must have in a mate or a relationship Next write down 10 things that are extremely important, but you can do without if you had to. Consider and put to paper your 6 absolutely have not's or your deal breakers. Lastly write down your dream list. This will include everything that you want to accomplish or experience in life. Try to come up with between 75 and 100 things. After you have done these exercises, you should have a pretty good idea of what type of man or woman you are looking for.

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