5 Mistakes Women Make While Trying to Attract Men

A lot of women fail when they try to pick up men at parties and bars by giving off the wrong signals. Sometimes a woman will think that they are really trying to let a guy know that they like him, when in reality the man is interpreting the woman's message as a mild form of rejection. If you are having trouble attracting men and are not sure what you are doing wrong, you may be making one of these five mistakes:

1. When you see a guy you like at a bar you try to get his attention by talking to the guy next to him with the hopes that you will get this attention and he will end up talking to you. This is not the best way to get the attention of a man you like. Men hate to share the affections of any woman they like with another man. So if you want to get the attention of a guy you like, you must find a way to make that man feel that you are paying special attention to him.

2. Playing hard-to-get because you want him to prove to you that he will do anything to win your love. If you like a guy and you notice that he is showing interest in you, playing hard-to-get will not encourage him in any way to work harder to earn your affection. Most times men see your negative reaction to their advances as an indication that you are not interested. Men are not mind readers. You have to come out and really show them that you are romantically interested in them.

3. Do not act out when you see a man because you think that is the only way he will get his attention. Being a drama queen will only turn men off. If you want the attention of a man, you have to act like a lady. If you are in a night club or bar, you can get his attention by sending a note that says, "I think you are cute". Sweeten the deal by sending the note across to him with a drink. He will feel flattered, and would most likely come over to thank you and have a chat with you.

4. Don't let him know that you will do anything to have him including having sex with him the first night you meet. No man wants a woman that is loose. Let him know that you are a lady and that he will have to wait for the right time to make love to you. Most men will wait because they know that if you are not giving up your body to them easily, you probably are probably not giving it up to the next man.

5. Being really nice to him one minute and going cold on him because you think you are being too forward. Do not treat a man you like this way. When you are warm, stay warm, he will be very interested. But when you go cold because you think he will get the wrong impression, he will think that you don't like him anymore.

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