10 Dating Rules You Must Live by If You Want More Men to Ask You Out on a Second Date

1. Never go to bed with any man on a first date. Most guys will see this as a stripping away of the challenge of dating you at all, not to mention the fact that they will also immediately lose interest and respect for you.

2. Tell him just enough about yourself that he will feel like he knows you a little better but is still intrigued by you to the point that he wants to get to know you better.

3. When you are on a date, make him the focal point of your attention. Engage him in conversation and listen to his responses and share your opinion.

4. Do not mention your ex-boyfriends under any circumstances, not even if one happens to be in the same restaurant as you. Ignore them, and unless they come up to you don't even let him notice that you are the least distracted by the presence of your ex boyfriend.

5. Don't check out other guys while you're on a date. Nothing kills the excitement of a first date more than a woman who looks at other men to the point their date starts feeling jealous and uncomfortable.

6. Be sure to flirt enough to let him know that you're interested, with light touches to his hand, shoulder, or back while you laugh, but don't overdo it.

7. Do not lie about yourself or present a false image of who you are. Even trying to like the same things he likes will not make him love or like you anymore than he already has.

8. Never act desperate. Don't make it seem as if you need a man to complete you. You are a strong independent person who is whole and unique; don't be afraid to let your date see that about you.

9. Don't throw any tantrums or cause a big scene on your date. Fussing may get you attention, but it is not likely to be the type of attention you want if you want your date to even think of asking you out on a second date.

10. Be nice and courteous to your date and don't forget basic table manners. Some things are okay, such as eating some appetizers with your hands, but you may need a fork for others.

Just remember that he is watching everything you do. His first impression of you will stick in his mind like glue. The more pleasant his first impression of you is, the more he will be inclined to call you again for a second date.

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