Dating Guide - It s Not How Much You Like Her, But How Much She Likes You That Counts

Most guys let their feelings blind them as soon as they meet a hot chick. They start fantasizing about spending the night with her or even building a future with her, when the girl is not even showing ANY romantic interest in them.

In some cases, the girl doesn't even NOTICE the guy.

Here's the bottom line:

SHE HAS TO LIKE YOU FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN START ANYTHING WITH HER.

When it comes to dating, women are the choosers. Men pick, but women choose. At each step of the dating game, a girl has to give you the permission to advance before you can take things to the next level. (Otherwise, it's called "sexual harassment".)

Let me show you what I mean:

* If she likes your style or looks, she will let you approach her.
* If she likes your approach, she will let you talk.
* If she likes the conversation, she will give you the phone number.
* If she likes the first date, she will give you a second date.
* If she likes you holding her hand, she will let you kiss her.
* If she likes your French kiss, she will let you...

Get it?

Sadly, most guys do NOT realize this. They think: "Since I think she is the most wonderful person in the world, she must feel the same way about me!"

Uh-huh. Wrong!

She does not care about how much you love her; she only cares about how much SHE likes you!

Think about it. If a fat chick with a black beard tells you she loves you, are you going to marry her on the spot? No way! The same thing is true for women. If a girl does not like you, then you're just like the fat chick with a beard. No matter how hard you try, she's not going to marry you because she is not attracted to you at all. You can buy her a house, give her flowers, take her to Paris, and shower her with tons of other gifts. She may take your gifts, but she's not going to make you happy at all because she does not like you in the first place.

On the other hand, if you have a girl who loves you with all her heart, she will try her very darn best to make you feel happy. There are NO limits to what a girl would do for the man she loves. She could be working a 60-hour job, but she's still going to find time to go out with you - if she likes you enough.

Every once in awhile, you hear on the news about a "bad boy" who beats up his wife or girlfriend. The guy hits and abuses the poor girl every day, but when the police finally take him away, the girl stands up for him in court, cries for him, and even waits for him to get out of jail. Why? Because the girl is super-attracted to him!

See what I mean when I say it's not how much you like the girl, but how much the girl likes you that counts?

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