Using Rapture Skills During Your Approach - Part Two

This is "Part Two" of a two-part series in which I discuss ways to eliminate boring conversations with girls by using "Rapture Skills" which will bring girl's excitement levels to new heights when you first approach them.

Let's say a girl is giving you just boring topics to discuss when you ask her open-ended questions such as "What kind of a weekend did you have?" or "What was the last movie you saw?" She responds with "I had a boring weekend and I did nothing," or her answer to the second question is, "I can't remember".

This is the time to spin that answer into another topic that you actually can excite her with, even though her first response was so utterly trite and dull. You need to follow her same frame of her reply about doing nothing on the weekend with, "My weekends are sometimes boring too (same frame of mind) but last weekend I went to the beach and I met Daniel Craig, you know the guy that plays James Bond, while I was wading out to the water.

Can you believe that? He was a real cool guy too. Not stuck up or anything. He was on vacation and just wanted to chill. Have you met anyone famous just by chance like that?"

Even if she never has, she will still be excited thinking about your encounter with a famous person, mostly a good-looking movie star that most women would just kill to meet like Daniel Craig. I'm not saying you should totally make up a false scenario like that one, but if you have had encounters with celebrities or you have had exciting weekends, just tell her the story like it happened recently.

Little white lies hurt no one in the end, but the results are that she will not be able to leave your sight once she knows you have many more stories to tell her that are just as interesting as that one.

TIME YOUR COMMENTS TO HER SO THEY SEEM NATURAL

A critical thing to remember while you first start to learn how to use these "Rapture Skills" is the fact that you cannot hold onto a great topic of conversation with a girl for too long. If she is bringing into your conversation with her a more boring topic, just let her keep that conversational thread going with you until you have the exact right moment in which you can turn that topic into a more exciting one.

You have to be able to discern just how natural sounding you are when you are in the midst of a heated conversation with a girl by looking outside yourself and being able to objectively describe what you are hearing the two of you speak about. Are you breaking into her conversational flow at the wrong times, effectively cutting her out of the fun dialog you two are having?

If so, you have to curtail the amount of new topics you are bringing up to her and just let her lead you into another conversational thread that you can spin a new story you have into that new thread or topic.

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