10 Questions You Must Ask Your Man To Make Sure He Is The One For You

1. "Do you want children?" If he says no and you want kids, this will be a major point of contention in your relationship. If having kids is very important to you, you may want to move on and find a man who wants to have kids with you.

2. "Do you want to get married?" If he is not ready for marriage and does not seem too interested in settling down, you may want to move on or give him some time if he requests it.

3. "Do you want to settle down here?" If you want to live in the same area you are in now and he wants to move across country, there will be some problems.

4. "Where do you see yourself in five years?" This will give you an idea of how his future plans mesh with yours.

5. "Would you be OK with me staying at home / working?" If you plan on having a career and he wants a stay at home wife, you are going to need to work something out.

6. "Are you happy with your career?" This will give you some insight into how stable he is. Now, just because he is not financially sound today does not mean that tomorrow he will not be the President of a company. Be careful not to judge a book by its cover.

7. "Why did you break up with your ex?" This can tell you a lot about the kind of person he is and how he might act when he is in a romantic relationship with you.

8. "What is your goal in life?" It is nice to know where he wants to go in life. Again this question will help you see whether his ideas complement yours.

9. "Have you done anything you are ashamed of?" If he says something small, it is OK. If he starts talking about a criminal past -- you might want to rethink things.

10. "What qualities do you want in a wife?" You want to know what he is looking for so that you know early in the dating game whether you are a good fit.

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