Clarity of Intention When Going On A Date With A Woman

Some men never really admit to themselves what their intention is when they go out on a date with a woman.

Before the date, you were to ask most men what the purpose of the date is, they would more than likely say I don't know or whatever happens happens.

Expecting nothing from a date and getting nothing from a date should be considered a success.

Yet, men who have no clarity on what they want find that they are disappointed when they do indeed get nothing.

The power that comes from clarity of intention is in the fact that you have complete control over the outcome that you achieve and it is independent of everyone else.

When it comes to a date with a woman, your intention can be as simple as escalating until a certain point or practicing certain skills to as complete as having a good time.

Where most guys go wrong is connecting their intention with the outcome.

A good example, is saying I will have a good time if I get laid or my only intention of going out on this date is to get laid.

The problem arises because at a certain point you might have to choose between having fun or the opportunity of sex.

Even though, the reality is there is no guarantee of sex and you might find yourself doing a lot of things you didn't want to do simply for an opportunity of having sex, which may or may not happen.

In the end, having clarity of intention is about controlling your outcome by focusing on that which you can control and not things that you can not control.

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