Men, Be Secure With Yourself Before You Try to Date Someone

I was dating a woman for about a month. We had our first date on Valentine's Day. This could be really romantic, right? Wrong. There isn't a single romantic thing about this article. The one month anniversary was great! Let me tell you, if you believe that I got some land in Arizona we need to talk about.

Now, let me start by saying I'm a secure guy. I don't need a woman in my life to make me feel good about myself. I am happy. I could be happier, but everybody could be. The fact remains, my woman and I split up. What happened? I know you're asking that. I'll tell you, sort of. If I only knew the details. Weird...

Maybe it's just because I'm a guy, or I'm just oblivious. I prefer to think it's just because I'm so dang clever. I thought everything was going great. We were going out to dinner weekly. We would chat on the telephone. I even took her to Reno with me. Things were great. It couldn't have been better if you look at the whole relationship on paper.

To tell you the truth, I wasn't really happy. I don't talk a lot and she didn't talk much either. I always had to initiate the conversations and when she did talk it was all about her job, etc. That stuff gets old real quick, but I acted like I cared. I did everything I was supposed to do. Well, I was getting bored.

I didn't feel the relationship was really going anywhere. I guess she felt the same way, too. One night I went to a karaoke club and I saw her there. I walked over to her and initiated the conversation, like always. She was with a girl friend and I was interrupted by some loud mouth I know. The woman and her started talking and took the attention off of me. After blabber mouth left, I started to talk to her. She rudely walked away from me while I was talking.

I'm here to say if this is how the majority of women are deep down, I don't really care to date. I have my book collection and I have my dogs. Like I said, I'm secure. I don't need a woman to feel good about myself and I advise all of you men out there to be the same. Don't base your happiness on another person. Women come and go and friends always let you down.

Be well.

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